Sunday, January 24, 2021

Happy COVID New Year




Almost a month into the New Year and I'm just now coming to my little public space to write. Here is the only real pic I have of New Year's Eve. Me and one of my Besties. We are at the local pub which has nice outside seating. This winter we've doubled at one of the pubs several times. We practice social distancing and eat outside (and drink some). The first time we were out I didn't realize how cold it would feel, but Shields, ever prepared, had a blanket and let me borrow half for my bottom. The metal chairs are chilling when you are outside. Her husband brought the new best party favor, a portable outside propane heater, kind of like what you might use out camping. I swear that makes the outside dining so much cozier. They are good enough to share the heat by alternatively pointing it in our direction. After that first pub outing, I got better about bringing blankets and a good coat and gloves. I do tease Shields and her husband about driving around with those propane tanks. They are little...but still. 

We toasted New Year's right at 9:00. That's right. Curfew was at 10:00 so the pub provided flutes of champaign at 9:00...so that we could all leave to go home for the COVID curfew. 

This morning, Bill went out and got the NY Times. It was glorious to be able to sit with an actual Sunday paper. The local papers are more like pamphlets these days, so I don't even bother. But the NY Times! Ah, that's a paper. I sat my bum on the couch with a cup of java and read that thing cover to cover. The inauguration was well covered. I must tell you I watched it stream when I was at work. I was able to work and watch at the same time. I was surprised when I teared up. More than once my breath caught in my chest. The ceremony was just perfect in my eyes. Lady Gaga singing the National Anthem was so unexpected and she was just perfect. I may overuse that word, but so be it. She was lovely.

The Times also had several human interest/feature articles on how "we" are responding to the lingering quarantine need as COVID has lingered. There were two articles about the need for human connection and how people have navigated trying to keep human connections. 

Since March, I've used Zoom and FaceTime, and WebEx apps to connect with others. After the first couple of video conferences, it began to feel like just a logical extension of telephone communications. I smile when I think how much like Star Trek it is. When I moved into my new apartment I used FaceTime to call my daughter and give her the tour. I've sent pics through phone messaging to friends. I'm not a fan of email (too much like work) but I can get down with a good text chat. One of my friends and I have perfected text chats. Sometimes we continue with phone chat. It's not the same as sitting in her kitchen, but it is connecting. Sometimes we multitask while we talk. When we do that it reminds me of the "old days" when phones were hanging on the wall with really long spiral cords. You could walk from room to room with the phone held between your ear and shoulder. Doing dishes at the same time was not unheard of.  

Girl's Night hasn't taken place since August and I sorely miss it. 

One of my girlfriends said she is late to the bread-baking fad that became part of COVID quarantines. But she is now baking quite a bit of bread. You may remember I thought I would learn to cook during COVID. Not sure that I can put a checkmark on that. But I did make some lovely french toast this morning. 

I read War and Peace as one of the #COVIDtogether fads. But I confess I didn't get through the epilogues (there are two). Someone recently told me that more story takes place in the epilogues. Well, I feel like I should get a "pass" for this novel anyway. 

I've binged a few shows, which may also be part of the COVID experience. First, I must tell you that I could not watch Tiger King. I made it through the first episode, but that was all I could do. But, I did watch The Crown. I also watched The Queen's Gambit (I give it 5 stars and highly recommend it). Also, The Spy with Sacha Cohen was another captivating binger, as well as The Chicago 5. For comic relief, I watched Schitt's Creek. I love every quirky character on that crazy show. Luckily, I have not needed to fold in the cheese in any of my recent cooking escapades. 

Oh, and that commercial about "not becoming your parents"? It's a classic! Some of those snippets will become cult classics! I know "We all see it" has come up in my life...more than once! 

Monday, January 11, 2021

2020 Was a Gas

I am blessed to be able to say that in 2020 I had moments of sheer joy. 


In previous years I made little "Year-End" cards to mark some of the good things. This year, I thought I would bring that back. 

It was a weird year. I believed "Self Quarantine" would be "short". I think we had to begin sheltering in place in March. I was sure that this would all be "fixed" by May. It felt like a really long string of snow days. Snow days from a child's eyes (and sometimes an adult's) is an unplanned gift of respite from the everyday. A day home from school? Yay. Do I do extra homework today? NO! That's missing the point of the gift. Instead focus on snowmen, sledding, and snow cream (if you can find some safe snow). The follow-up to a good snow day is a good cup of hot cocoa and blissfully tired bodies. 

I did my part in self-isolation, going nowhere after work. Just me and the pets, reading "'War and Peace". I heard about this "fad" on NPR. Reading the book in a virtual book club. A book that I would not have picked out for myself. On "A Public Space", Yiyun Li led us through and inspired reading of a surprisingly good book. [#TolstoyTogether]

I binged on mini-series shows on Netflix and Amazon. It's funny because it sounds like many of us binged the same shows. This makes for typical conversations at the "water cooler". I binged the Queen's Gambit and The Crown.

I took online classes (I have one more that I need to finish). I went to a Writers' Retreat. The retreat part had to be improvised but was pretty good. 

I went down to Wilmington several times so I could play with that sweet little Lucy. I've been lucky!

Saturday, December 19, 2020

Miles to Go

Hello Dear Friends, I've missed you all! I missed coming here and telling you my stories. Today I will just dive in. I'm MOVING....again.  

What? I LOVE this apartment. I mean REALLY love this apartment.  How many moves does this make? Well, this is technically the second in 2020. But I sort of think of it as a New Year's Move. 

I was in the last apartment for two years. The one before that was about 6 months (?) and now this one is right at a year. And now, I'm moving one more time. 

I'm moving one building over to a top floor (instead of a 2nd floor). The new unit has two bedrooms; more than I needed a year ago, but exactly what I need today. The move is on Monday. Bill is moving to the new apartment too. 

I'm building a shared life. I find it interesting that, for me, the year is ending the way it began...with a move. Or maybe the new year is beginning the way this one did, with a move. 

I'll be honest, I could do with a lot less moving. I'd like to have all of the boxes unpacked AND the pictures hung for a few years. I think this next apartment will be good for that. 

In the middle of the planned move, we put up a Christmas Tree. It's a real one, and it's just the right size. And there are presents under the tree that I just can't wait to open. I haven't been this excited about the holiday in a very long time. 

The tree was put up a couple of weeks after Thanksgiving. It didn't make sense to buy a tree and put it up when the move is just days before Christmas. And yet, I wanted to be festive. So the tree is here and it makes me very happy.  

The star is Bill's homage to Vincent. Who wouldn't love a star like that? 

The boxes were packed today and the movers will come on Monday. The walls are bare now. As I see that the packing part has been done, the tension in my body softens. Seeing the packed boxes makes it all a lot less scary. And this time... I am not doing it alone. 

As I write this, I'm sitting in the dark watching the tree lights glow. I am quiet. The only sound is the dog's little snores from his snuggly place on the couch. Lines from the poem come to mind and I am happy. Christmas is upon us.
The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep.

But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.

"Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening"
Robert Frost